It’s been my longstanding opinion that people aren’t born gay, at least not in the sense that most people would understand it.  As far as I see it, though, when I debate this topic with other people, there are three possibilities in the world of “gay formation”:
1.  Gay people are born like the rest of us, but consciously make a decision to become gay.
2.  Gay people are born like the rest of us, and unconsciously make a decision to become gay.
3.  Gay people are born gay and have no choice, …